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Wave of support for Turkish father who lost daughter in quake

By AFP - Feb 27,2023 - Last updated at Feb 27,2023

Turkish father Mesut Hancer, poses and holds a painting representing him and his daughter Irmak in his apartment in Ankara on Saturday, as his family tries to rebuild, after losing their daughter Irmak, 15 years old, in the earthquake that devastated the south-eastern region of Turkey (AFP photo)

ANKARA — A photo of a father holding his daughter’s hand killed in the February 6 earthquake that struck Turkey has provoked an outpouring of sympathy and support from around the world, he told AFP.

Around three weeks after the disaster that killed more then 44,000 people in Turkey and thousands more in neighbouring Syria, AFP photographer Adem Altan tracked down Mesut Hancer in the capital Ankara.

He had moved there from Kahramanmaras, near the epicentre of the quake.

As well as his daughter, lost under the ruins of an eight-storey block of flats, “I lost my mother, my brothers, my nephews in the quake,” Hancer said.

“But nothing compares to burying a child. The pain is indescribable.”

The image of Hancer wearing an orange jacket against the cold and rain while holding his daughter’s hand emerging from the rubble, was published on many newspaper front pages and seen millions of times online.

It became a symbol of a disaster that devastated tens of thousands of lives, drawing special attention to his family.

Now, Turkish businessman Necat Gulseven, owner of the television channel TV100, and his wife, Ebru Yasar, a well-known singer, have offered the former baker an administrative job at the TV channel and given the family an apartment in Ankara.

Meanwhile a painting of Hancer’s daughter Irmak as an angel alongside her father, donated by an artist, hangs in their living room.

“I couldn’t let go of her hand. My daughter was sleeping like an angel in her bed,” he recalled.


Waiting for help 


Hancer was working in his bakery when the quake hit at 4:17am (01:17 GMT).

Calling home, he found his wife and three adult children were safe at home in their one-storey house, although it was damaged as the earth shook.

But no one could reach Irmak, the youngest, who had stayed the night at her grandmother’s house.

She had planned to spend time with cousins visiting from Istanbul and Hatay.

Rushing to his mother’s building, Hancer found the eight-storey block collapsed into a mound of rubble.

In the middle, amid the debris of everyday life, was his daughter.

Waiting more than a day before any rescue team arrived, Hancer and other local people tried to find their loved ones under the ruins themselves, even trying — and failing — to shift concrete blocks by hand.

Unable to recover Irmak’s body, he remained sat by her side.

“I held her hand, I stroked her hair, I kissed her cheeks,” he recalls.

Later, he saw Adem Altan taking photos of the scene.

“Take pictures of my child,” he said in a quiet, broken voice.

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